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imtheannoyingfriend ugly-anarchist 24th March, 2024, 10:26 PM
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I think a lot of the sex negativity in queer spaces stems from the fact that in cisheteronormative society sex is a way that men dominate and degrade women.

We need to separate the idea that sex is inherently degrading. We need to step away from this perception that sex is this horrible thing that can only be redeemed through romance.

Women who enjoy hookups aren't devaluing themselves and men who enjoy hookups aren't predatory.

We've been told that sex is degrading and takes away a person's value, and we recognize that that's a problematic way of viewing things, but instead of saying "no, that's not true" you go "yeah it's true, but not under these conditions" and you think you've made it better

22nd April, 2023, 11:43 PM

maybe tumblr is not the place for this and maybe i should just like, you know, go back to psychotherapy but god going on grindr in a non-collage area of the city is such a reward.


in like where i live (which is like under 22s and weird) it is a desert. i get the occasional phd (and they are always in chem for whatever reason) but here? god non-stop messages. Do i act on them? no but the attention is what i live for.

downside a man said he wanted me to suck him off while playing “the harry potter game” which is like no but lol